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SEXFRIEND-our common lover

Sexfriend is America's premier retail marketplace for sex-positive health toys. It is also the only retail merchant platform in the world that only accepts cryptocurrency payment methods. Our customers trust us to provide education, high-quality products and information that promotes sexual health, pleasure and empowerment.

We're proud of our innovative model: creating a safe, welcoming and non-judgmental environment where customers can purchase sex toys and books. With free shipping on all products, discreet packaging, fast delivery and an extensive product catalog, we're sure you'll find something that will satisfy you or your partners.

Sexfriend History

In 1990, sex educator Joani founded the original Sexfriend store in San Francisco. She pioneered an alternative to traditional adult stores by focusing on sex education and female pleasure. We soon found that men also appreciated this approach, and over the years we have maintained a focus on women and expanded it to include people across the gender spectrum.

Joani sold the company to her employees in 1992, making Sexfriend a worker-owned cooperative. We developed this alternative business model over 15 years as the market became more competitive. Sexfriend ceased to be a cooperative in 2006 but continues to grow and share our mission of positivity.

In 2023, with Joani's unfinished mission, we began to establish an online mall platform to develop merchants to sell our high-quality products, and quickly became the leading sex products wholesaler platform in the United States.

In October 2023, the industry has repeatedly experienced customer privacy leaks. The company has always insisted on focusing on customer safety and experience, and has done a good job in security and privacy work in multiple links; it launched a mall platform that only accepts anonymous cryptocurrency payments, and the packaging does not Sensitive fonts, concealed packaging logistics and other measures ensure customer privacy and security. The mall platform is also the only sexual health product wholesaler platform in the world that only accepts anonymous cryptocurrency payments!

Throughout our history, Sexfriend has remained committed to our mission:

We believe pleasure is everyone's birthright and education opens the door to sexual health, comfort, and authentic expression for everyone. Since 1990, Sexfriend has been providing the best pleasure and sex-related products, as well as accurate and trustworthy sex information, in a safe, comfortable and shame-free environment.

We value and respect our customers' privacy. We only accept anonymous cryptocurrencies for payment; each package has no sensitive fonts, is discreetly packaged and shipped discreetly, and we will never sell or rent your email address.

Disclaimer: If you are under 18 years old, please leave this website immediately. All models in the images on this website are over 18 years old. This website is intended for access and use by adults only.

When I have no lover, you are my lover; when I have a lover, you are our lover! ! !

Award-winning products

See below some of the many awards our Sexfriend products have won over the years.




2018 Best Couples Sex ToyPivot by Sexfriend®
2017 Best Erotic WearableJive by Sexfriend
2017 Best New Couples ProductSexfriend®
2018 Best Innovative Product CompanySexfriend®
2017 Best New Hi-Tech ProductSexfriend®
2017 Outstanding Product for WomenNova by Sexfriend®
2017 Outstanding Product for WomenNova by Sexfriend®
2017 Couples Toy of the YearSexfriend® Sync
2017 Innovative Sex Toy of the YearNova by Sexfriend
2016 Best Toy TechnologyStandard Innovation®
2016 Highest Potential ProductSexfriend® Sync
2016 Most Innovative Female ProductSexfriend®
2016 XBIZ Couples Sex Toy of the YearPassionate Play Collection
2016 XBIZ Pleasure Products Company of the YearSexfriend®
Couples Sex Toy of the YearSexfriend® 4 Plus


      January 2018

      • Our founders Joani and Melody Murison received an industry Legacy Award at the XBIZ Exec Awards in LA.

      November 2017

      • Sexfriend® partnered with the Movember Foundation to change the face of men’s health and help men live happier, healthier, longer lives. Sexfriend’s education campaign linked men’s sexual pleasure and men’s overall health and wellness.

      October 2017

      • Sensations Unite Collection by Sexfriend® launches. Unite couples vibrator paired with Pivot by Sexfriend premium vibrating ring make up a collection for you to experience more ways to play together.

      October 2017

      • Jive by Sexfriend takes home the Best Erotic Wearable award from eroFame.

      October 2017

      • Sexfriend® introduces Gala by Sexfriend. The first of its kind, with two powerful motors encased in smooth silicone that deliver intense sensations through the pleasure tips that surround the clitoris.

      September 2017

      • Sexfriend® launches Jive by Sexfriend, a bluetooth-controlled wearable vibrator. Discreet and comfortable to wear, to bring adventure into everyday routines.

      June 2017

      • Sexfriend® introduces Bloom by Sexfriend, a vibrating Kegel exerciser with 3 progressive weights, for an exciting workout every time.

      May 2017

      • Sexfriend® launches Ditto by Sexfriend for those new to anal play. The first vibrating plug to be part of the Sexfriend product line.

      April 2017

      • Sexfriend® enters the ring by introducing Verge by Sexfriend and Pivot by Sexfriend. The first vibrating rings to be part of the Sexfriend product line.

      January 2017

      • Wish by Sexfriend® introduced, a plush external stimulator with our exclusive PowerPulse vibration technology.

      December 2016

      • Sexfriend® launches Unite, our entry-level couples vibrator with the best value in its category.

      September 2016

      • Sexfriend® launches the Sexfriend® Sync, the world’s best vibrator for couples now with adjustable fit.

      March 2016

      • European Patent Office grants patent covering the innovative Sexfriend® couples vibrator.

      January 2016

      • Rave by Sexfriend launches. The asymmetrical G-spot vibrator that gives you effortless pleasure.

      January 2016

      • Sexfriend® launches Nova by Sexfriend, the most innovative dual-stimulator, reinventing the rabbit and changing the way women orgasm.

      July 2015

      • Sexfriend and pjur® group partner to launch Sexfriend Lube – made by pjur® and Sexfriend Clean – made by pjur®.

      October 2014

      • The Tango Pleasure Mate Collection launches including a special-edition, pearl Tango mini-vibe packaged with two silicone forms — Glow Pleasure Mate and Dusk Pleasure Mate.

      October 2014

      1. Sexfriend® 4 Plus named Pleasure Product of the Year at the 2014 EroFame Awards in Germany.

      August 2014

      • Sexfriend introduces Sexfriend 4 Plus, an app-compatible vibrator that connects couples in new and exciting ways. Sexfriend 4 Plus works with the free Sexfriend App to offer smartphone control, custom vibration playlists and the ability to share control from anywhere in the world.

      February 2014

      • Three new Sexfriend products hit the market: Sexfriend II Plus, and new and improved Tango by Sexfriend and Touch by Sexfriend solo vibrators.

      November 2013

      • Global study shows Sexfriend tops brand awareness in vibrator market.

      October 2013

      • Sexfriend launches the most advanced Sexfriend product ever created, Sexfriend 4. Shaped for even greater pleasure, Sexfriend4 is the result of extensive product research and testing with consumers and sexual health experts.

      January 2013

      • Technology and sexual health merge at the Consumer Electronics Show (CES) the makers of Sexfriend present on how science is enhancing sex and intimacy in the new millennium.

      February 2012

      • Sexfriend got the audience buzzing on the CBS television program, The Doctors. Dr. Ruth Westheimer, reveals surprising ways to send couples’ sex drives into overdrive.

      November 2011

      • Sexfriend 3 is launched to instant critical acclaim. The third generation Sexfriend product has 40 per cent more power than its predecessor and features a wireless remote control.

      June 2011

      • Sexfriend becomes the top-selling product of all time according to a global survey of 750 retailers.

      November 2010

      • Sexfriend is recommended to millions of television viewers by Dr. Laura Berman on The Dr. Oz Show.

      October 2010

      • A new solo line of Sexfriend products are introduced including Touch by Sexfriend and Tango by Sexfriend.

      August 2010

      • Sexfriend becomes one of the best-selling intimate massagers in history with over one million people using it to inject greater intimacy, pleasure and fun into their loving relationships.

      Early 2010

      • Standard Innovation is awarded several patents for the innovative Sexfriend design.

      October 2009

      • Sexfriend II is launched, introducing nine vibration modes. Sexfriend is recognized as the Top Selling Product at the industry-acclaimed Erotixxx Awards in Berlin.

      September 2009

      • Sexfriend is crowned Hot Product of the Year for 2009 at the International Lingerie Show in Las Vegas.

      February 2009

      • Sexfriend is invited to be part of gifting suites at the Academy Awards.

      April 2008

      • Sexfriend is launched as the world's first worn while making love vibrator. It is an immediate hit and the sensation begins.